Debbie Nelson, the single mother of rapper Eminem whose rocky relationship with her son was known widely through his hit song lyrics, has died. She was 69.
Eminem鈥檚 longtime representative Dennis Dennehy confirmed Nelson鈥檚 death in an email on Tuesday. He did not provide a cause of death, although Nelson had battled lung cancer.
Nelson was born in 1955 on a military base in Kansas. Her fraught relationship with her son, whose real name is Marshall Mathers III, has been no secret since the Detroit rapper became a star.
Eminem has disparaged his mother in songs such as the 2002 single 鈥淐leaning Out My Closet.鈥� Eminem sings: 鈥淲itnessin鈥� your mama poppin鈥� prescription pills in the kitchen. ... My whole life I was made to believe I was sick when I wasn鈥檛.鈥�
In lyrics from his Oscar-winning hit 鈥淟ose Yourself鈥� from the movie 鈥�8 Mile,鈥� his feelings seem to have simmered, referencing his "mom鈥檚 spaghetti.鈥� The song went on to win best rap song at the 2004 Grammy Awards.
Nelson brought and settled a pair of defamation lawsuits over Eminem鈥檚 statements about her in magazines and on radio talk shows. In her 2008 book, 鈥淢y Son Marshall, My Son Eminem,鈥� she attempted to set the record straight by providing readers details about the rapper鈥檚 early life, writing that Eminem had forgotten the good times they had.
鈥淢arshall and I were so close that friends and relatives commented that it was as if the umbilical cord had never been cut,鈥� she wrote.
She also detailed her own childhood, describing a violent home life in which her dad鈥檚 mother, who she spent summers with, was 鈥渢he one woman in my large dysfunctional family to show us kids love.鈥�
In 2004, she was dragged from her car on Eight Mile Road, the street in a Detroit suburb made famous by 鈥�8 Mile,鈥� by a 16-year-old who was later sentenced to more than four years in prison. She suffered bruises and a broken foot.
The highly acclaimed rapper Eminem at the 2024 MTV EMAs and was inducted into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame in 2022.
He in October that he was going to be a grandfather, saying his daughter Hailie Jade is pregnant by way of a touching music video that is a tribute to their relationship.
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The story has been updated to correct that Eminem announced in October that he was going to be a grandfather, not last month.
Hallie Golden, The Associated Press
